does any one out there know the 4-digit number you send the card number to, to pay by sms?

When you pay by sms, you phone the number given and they give you the code !!

this is the section of the payments i am refering to;

"What's Pay by SMS?
You send an SMS with a 3-4 character code to a 4-digit telephone number. The access code is immediately sent back to you via SMS. You will receive the access code back to you via SMS to be entered on the site to download the girl. The code can be used immediately or later and remains valid until used. Payment occurs anonymously on your telephone bill."

i have looked all over but i cant find it.

Yes, I see your problem now !! I was answering you from memory earlier ! On checking, those options don't appear available, do they ?? It always was quite an expensive way of doing it, so if you have an alternative means of payment I would recommend that !! Sorry, I can't be of more help on the sms !! Someone else may pop up !!