It's a different wank if you've come of age since the internet then if you were doin' it before. I understand how people who've been "spoiled" by having it all laid out anytime they want with fast connections can get to a boredom level and need ever more explicit offerings. It's like if one is a reader as opposed to a movie watcher...the imagination is more developed out of necessity in the reader.Then there is the generational thing. When some of us were young & just startin' to get randy you had to shake the paper if you wanted the girls to move!I had an early teen version, sorta, of VG...I tacked up 6 centerfolds on my wall & had a "Power Wank" when alone in the house. Flitting fantasies between each babe! I mention this only to note the difference between what we've been "acclimated to" re: da wank. So as the imagination is better developed it doesn't take much to enable it! But the question is-Do you talk to yer girls either in head or out? Do you ask them to do & show things? Eh?