Well rsvr, I would have to agree with you on the point about my hands. They are far from dainty and they are one of my least favorite features. My hands are quite strong and I have a ***** kung fu grip. I wanted to crop them out, but it would have been at the cost of cropping out most of my hip/booty.
Aside from that, the other things that you mentioned are valuable information, but they would not have helped me in this instance, because this pic was taken with a webcam, not a digital. I take all of my own photos, so I do the best that I can, with what I have to work with. Again, thanks for your input, it is greatly appreciated.