I have a question for fans of iStripper: do you mostly fantasize about submitting to the girls on your screen? No judgment, just genuinely curious.

I'm asking because Totem frames (with the card text) almost all their BDSM cards as femdom, even though this entire platform reads to me as an epic exercise in maledom harem fantasy (that's certainly why I'm on it). And statistically speaking, the majority of men are not sub. And most of the BDSM cards that have femdom flavor text from Totem are, in fact, the performer role-playing as a sub. There some notably great femdom/JOI-type solos, switch-hitting duos, and true femdom duos of course. But these are really few and far between.

Now, I get why Hollywood prefers dominatrixes for their BDSM-related content, because it lets them seem both edgy and sex positive without having to deal with the complexities of genuine, consensual femsub in the Me Too era.

But this is iStripper, folks... can't we be honest with ourselves about why most of the guys on this platform are here?

Or is iStripper really a hotbed of guys with femdom/female worship fantasies? I do see this sentiment disproportionally reflected in the card reviews, but I've always assumed the femsub fans are just keeping quite about that. (Again, no judgment either way. I can get into powerful women and female power fantasies.)

I think this is important because to do femsub BDSM content properly, Totem and their directors need to be willing to go there, attitude wise. I find it a bit irritating that Totem teases BDSM content more and more often, but seems not to know how to deliver on that promise - both generally (like props that are impractical for solo shows and get thrown behind the table almost immediately), and also to what I think is their core audience preference (femsub). This can't be driven primarily by performers, since a substantial % of performers deliver overtly submissive performances whether or not they're doing a BDSM-themed card, and a lot of the porn industry pros do almost exclusively maledom content outside of iStripper.

A corollary to this is: don't do BDSM-themed cards with performers who are unfamiliar and/or uncomfortable with the genre. But "focus on your performer's strengths" is just good advice over all.

Maybe if we speak up about our preferences, Totem will improve its artistic range going forward.

Hi @etinarcadiaego

Not only men have Fantasies, and unfortunately most of the men out there are not
aware of the fact that Woman have another sense for Sexuality as we men.

So i think it's not a Question about BDSM-related content or,
"a hotbed of guys with femdom/female worship fantasies" maybe or at least from my point of view.

But i also think for the Fact that the majority of the iStripper Users are in fact men,
i recommend them to listen to the other side of the sense for Sexuality 😉

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KSXRKApuIbg

Enjoy it, it's very interesting what they have to tell 👍

What seems to be femdom content actually is femslave.
Only the names of the cards have femdom titles, but in the shows girls say "spank me, whip my ass" , etc. and they hit themselves.
Few girls play as Mistresses, the rest are slaves which for many is turn off.
For example: Genevieve Gândi is a great Mistress in the Bound & Whipped card.

I have a question for fans of iStripper: do you mostly fantasize about submitting to the girls on your screen?

Interesting question. Answer from me is "no".

Usually I'm barely engaged with the show emotionally and remain fairly detached intellectually. I'm just buying eye candy and I don't fantasise one way or the other. A BDSM theme is just a variation in costume. The beauty of the performance, along with the spice of nudity, is what attracts me. I suspect tht I'm not alone in this.

For me, iStripper isn't really a medium that distinguishes between femdom and femsub, other than at a very trivial level. Other products do that and it's important, as you say, that they do it properly to sustain the fantasy. It would take a performer with decent acting skills to play either dom or sub consistently during a striptease and I don't think the directors have that available to them. So I don't think that we can get Totem to improve the artistic range, unless they substantially change the proposition (actresses, choreography, less than 3 shows per day, etc.).

So I'm ok with iStripper as it is - or would be if there were more e-series cards, but that's a different matter.

Personally femdom is one of my biggest fantasy but I didn't registered on iStripper especially for that. But yes, it would be great to have real femdom performances (JOI + verbal humiliations etc...)

But I don't know if this fantasy is popular here.😕

It is important of course for iStripper make shows that may support a fantasy. Just supply the right model, the right outfit, and just the right direction and the end user should be able to do the rest. Plenty of fantasies are just too difficult to articulate anyway. For myself, I'm not into BDSM and so whether it is "dominant" or "submissive" is irrelevant to me. Just a fun theme.

Women are not hypervisual so being turned on by pictures is generally not in the cards. (No dick pics!) Instead a story is needed. You know like 'chick porn'... you know. Romance novels. The only picture there is the cover. Although some sort of hybrid might work. Anime probably has done something like that already. I just ***** unrealistic animation. But umm, lady users would have to suppy their own fantasy/story. If there were any. Anyways, what were we talking about. I need some coffee. 😕 😋

(edit) Oh, I forgot about couples. Now there is some fun with iStripper. 😋 😍

A good show for me to go in the way of this topic